It is my policy to offer new mediation clients a free consultation to provide them with an in-depth discussion about mediation, what is expected of each party, the role of the mediator, and what each party hopes to achieve from mediation. During this meeting the parties will have an opportunity to ask the mediator questions and to review the Mediation Agreement, which sets forth the agreement between the parties and the mediator. Clients sometimes commence the mediation process at the initial consultation, while others prefer to contemplate their course of action. Once the parties determine that mediation is the right alternative for them, the mediation begins.

      During the first mediation session, the parties set forth the issues and each party sets forth his or her goals as related to each matter of contention or agreement. The parties are encouraged to seek “mediation friendly” counsel even at this early stage. The mediator provides the parties with guidance, poses alternatives and facilitates communication between the parties. The mediator coordinates the exchange of documentation that is required to be exchanged and the collection of data that is necessary to insure that each party is able to make informed decisions. When necessary the mediator works with joint experts in valuing community property, family therapists, and the consulting attorneys. Oftentimes the parties have the same goals and merely need to translate them into a viable agreement.

      Once an agreement is reached, our office is available to draw up all final paperwork for entry with the Court, assist the parties in the transfer of assets, and resolve disputes related to compliance with the court orders. In those instances where the parties are represented by counsel, we can transmit the terms of agreement to their attorney for preparation of the final documents.